Saturday, February 25, 2012

Guys and girls.

This will probably be a short post. Because it's a response to ANOTHER blog post by one of my friends, Mandy.  You can read the post here But if you don't have time at the moment, I'll sum up.  She was talking about the differences between guys and girls.  Especially the whole thing about guys having a really hard time talking to girls, especially when they're asking for a date, a dance, or complimenting them on stuff.  She said, "I will never understand why that's so hard to do...."  I think I have the answer.The reason guys are so "afraid" so to speak, to talk to girls is for one of two reasons.  The first,  is that they're afraid of rejection, even if they don't think about that at the time, that's almost always one of the reasons.  And the second one is that we're afraid that if we ask a girl to dance or something they'll think that we "like"  them and then it would be embarrassing and every one would talk about it to no end.... and that would be bad. Every though we know that girls don't usually assume that guys "like" them just for giving a compliment or asking on a dance,  it's still scary.  And there you have it.  My probably somewhat inaccurate answer of a question.  I think that all I've really done is reiterate Mandy's point though.... Girls and guys will never truly understand one another.:D

~Nathan XVI